YOU NEED SEVERAL HONEYMOONS IN YOUR MARRIAGE

To all husbands and wives,
Return to your first love

Many couples have lost the first love. They hardly do the things they did during their honeymoon and the early days of marriage in the name of "am busy" or "am occupied with the children". Return to your first love.

Our wives, remember that sex is not all about making children. You must be a different woman to your husband every time. Seduce your husband, don't always allow your husband to ask for Sex, there must be no timetable for sex. Be creative, don't be predictable. Give him what he wants. If you loose influence over your husband, you have lost womanhood. Return to your first love.
Be part of your husbands plans.

Don't have too many children which you cannot properly disciple for Christ. The Children are not yours but God's. You are only stewards over them. You shall give accounts of your stewardship.

Couples stop relegating your parental duties to your parents and in-laws. God did not give them your children, he gave them to you for a purpose. Bring them up the way God wants you to.

We have allowed too much of our parents especially our mothers in our marriages. That is not God's plan. Remember you shall render accounts on your children to God. Will you be found a good steward?

Our wives, Allow your husband to check in and out anytime sexually as you did during your honeymoon and early days in your marriage. When a man is sexually satisfied, he is emotionally stable. Stop saying, is it food ? Yes, sex is food. Return to your first love.

As a wife, try to invest in yourself spiritually so you can adequately support your husband. He is the head of the home but he needs your support spiritually. You used to pray for him in the early days of marriage but not anymore. You only pray for your children, that is very important but remember you are not married to your children but your husband to be a help meet in bringing up the children in the fear of the Lord. Build yourself as his prayer warrior so that you will not be forced to pray at the end of your life. Return to your first love.

Stop trying to obtain favour in the sight of your children branding your husband the wicked man before your children. A lot of wives, pollute their children against their fathers and his family members. They prevent even their in-laws from visiting or disallow the children access to the parents of the man. Is it for the reason of mothers day present or that the children will provide for you during your old age? It is devilish if you are a wife like this. You are like the venom of the serpent. Repent before the anger of the Lord descends on you.
Jointly discipline and love your children. Stop saying "I will tell your father" when they go wrong. It paints a bad image of the fathers. Discipline your child if he goes wrong not pamper.

Many marriages are suffering because they did not have good and God fearing upbringing. Who is to be blamed? Parents, Remember you are stewards.

Our wives don't allow your husband to provide all your needs. Never say in his presence "since you married me you have done nothing for me, not even bought a cloth for me". What about the utility bills, the transport fares he pays when you both pick a car. What about the school fees. What about the rent. Appreciate and pray for him. You are a help meet not an ATM machine always withdrawing from him. Iron sharpens iron, try to reciprocate and appreciate him.

Some wives even have more income than their husbands do but they hide their money to provide for their families and proofing to the children the husbands are useless, not caring and refusing to meet their needs. These wives leave their husbands to be struggling, thinking. They husbands end up dying before their time. Gods eye is still watching. The day of reckoning shall be dangerous and surprising.

You are meant to support each other spiritually, financially, physically and morally through thick and thin. You are a builder. Wise woman buildeth her home. Women need wisdom to build their homes. Return to your first love.

Wives, Do not be too outspoken, know when to talk, when to listen and when to be quiet. Is it the way you started marriage? Return to your first love.

Love your husband with all your heart. A lot of women are fond of saying "if not because of my children". Don't forget that when the children were not there u were still married. Return to your first love.

The number one purpose of marriage is not to make children but accomplish God's given purpose as a help meet to your husband.

Pamper your husband, put his head on your chest and pray for him just as you will always expect him to do for you.

Give him unannounced kiss from the back. Many couples apart from the first days of marriage where they kissed unannounced have relegated kissing to the moment of sex only. They kiss each other only during sex. Don't be too busy and too holy to kiss in the public. He is your husband for God sake. Return to your first love

Be romantic it is good for the heart. Some people are not happy that you're happy in that marriage, proof them wrong that you love him and he is your crown, always feel good when you hold him. Don't look 50 while you're still under 40, it drives men crazy. Always keep fit regardless of your age or body.
To men:
Do not take a woman who does all these for granted!
Pamper her, pray for her, cherish her, love her, support her financially, make her feel like your woman! God bless us and our marriages..... Apostle Elikem Joshua Avotri